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Question:
I
am writing to you because my social life has been changing recently.
In fact, I tend to go out much less now because doing so gives me a
lot of physical and mental discomfort. My problem is related to
sweating and to strong and bad odor; the problem, I think, instead is
not only linked psychologically but more importantly to my ability to
respire.
For example, if I find myself in crowded and somewhat heated
places, I suffer like a dog; I become paranoid when I feel like I am
suffocating and try to avoid places with a possibility of sweating. I
would like to know if a septum deviation can solve anything,
including palpitation. Thank You.
Answer:
Dear
Francesca,
The
fact that you asked this question to someone who is specialized in
psychology related science brings me to think that there is something
inside you that is pushing you to think that there are some
psychological component to the problems that you are describing, not
only physical.
Surely I do not exclude the importance to put into
consideration the problems that are physical and can have a negative
impact on your problem, but wait before considering seeing a
specialist doctor; as a psychologist, I pay much more attention only
the perception that you have on these physical characteristics and
the amount of pain it cause you more than the sweating and the bad
odor itself. A high pain can become something that can slowly hinder
your social relations even more.
I
think at the bottom of all this there is an anxiety component that is
more or less known and limiting you particularly; connecting it to
your social situations, it manifests through your fear of “having
something wrong” that the others can tell. Following this
hypothesis it can also be considered the palpitation that you’ve
quickly mentioned as a very important element to understand your
situation better.
Referring
back to your question, I have to confirm how much I believe breathing
to be the most important element to take in consideration, and to
improve on. For example, beginning from techniques that are specific
and goal-oriented, with the help of an expert, a path can be found to
help you overcome in the best way possible the problems that you’ve
said. To conclude this, what I really want to tell you in all honesty
is that you must develop more trust and hope within yourself, because
the consequence can be seen in these problems.
Wish
you all the luck in the world.
Answer:
Manuele Matera, Psychologist
Question:
Francesca, 27 years old
Publication Date: 03/23/2007
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